From the archives, how to cheer up the darker days…
The days are getting shorter, the nights colder. Although we can’t bring back the light of the summer and we can’t stop the rain from falling on our heads, there are always the simple, small ways to lift our spirits.
If you are mid-divorce especially, the darkness out your window only adds to your dark mood.
Autumn always signals personal reassessment for me. Whether it be in my home, my closets, my work and creativity, or even relationships. It must be that old, back to school feeling. Remember when you would get taken out by your mother for back to school shoes? It was so special and exciting you might even get a new dress or jacket out of the deal.
“Summertime, and the livin’ is easy…your daddy’s rich and your mamma’s good lookin’..” That old Gershwin jazz tune always plays through my mind in June. Summer is upon us and we’ve waited patiently for it to come! We even travel great distances at great expense during the winter months to get a taste of this season in some other exotic locale. But now we have it, right outside our own
I just finished my morning coffee on the beach with the eagles, the loons and the less majestic sea gulls. The cooler night air has brought with it a hint of fog on the water. The first sign of the fall season. It’s been a wonderful two weeks with my kids but now we have to say good bye, something I hate.

Our favorite; Charlie Brown and his famous tree
One of the most difficult times of the year for divorced and broken families is undoubtedly the Christmas Season. Especially the first couple of years when it is a time for re-building and transitioning the new family unit.
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